Let's begin with the meaning of Instant Gratification . So what is Instant Gratification?
Divide the word and let's know the meaning of each word
Instant means immediate or the thing which is happening or coming suddenly .
Gratification is a source of pleasure or the satisfaction you gain from a desire.
Now let's come to "Instant Gratification".A lot of meanings are derived for instant gratification, one of them says" it refers to the temptation , and resulting tendency, to forego a future benefit in order to obtain a less rewarding benefit." and few of the other people tell that it's when you want it and you want it now.Instant gratification is the opposite of what we've been taught and try too hard to practice.
Okay these meanings doesn't seem to be positive right. They say that we forget our future just to get a little less rewarding benefit. Which is quite a big statement
But is it so ? Firstly, Why do people say that ?
basically what happens is People stop doing the productive work and start doing something that makes them happy or anything which relaxes their minds from other stuff.
For example you thought of reading at least one chapter or at least a single page of a book .But, you keep on delaying and you open your instagram to check the feed and you convince your mind that you will be using it only for 5 minutes., and the rest is history , we spend hours and hours on it.
We all do that , People say that it is instant gratification , because it hinders your way of reading that book.
Well, you can take an example of anything, You motivate yourself , You tell to your mind that from today I am going to Workout , I will just stop eating all the sweets and junk, and now you are really convinced about it. "Hey! How are you ? It's been a long time." says the guest who has just arrived with a delicious box of your favorite sweet holding in his hand. He gives it to you, You start to drool just like a baby, when he sees a candy . Okay, so now you convince your mind that "I will eat these sweets now, and start the workout and diet from tomorrow." Yes, That is instant gratification .
Hmm, Man Instant Gratification is definitely bad !! RIGHT? But, What if we make this enemy as our friend ?
Yes, That will be the best part right ? But IS IT POSSIBLE ?? Yes, Why not ?
Let's take the above two examples only !
If, You have made your mind to read something, that means you do think about your future right ? You do think that it will be helping me ? It will help me develop my future .. in short it would be pleasurable to you if you read that book you thought of reading. It becomes a source of pleasure to you . That means you are gratified to do it. Right? Well, that's the meaning of gratification as you can see in the beginning of the blog .
Now you are really gratified. SO, why not doing the thing which is giving you pleasure right now.. Just do it Immediately.. and we all know that Immediate means instant.
Well, is it that easy ? Yes,it is ... Just do the things right now , But what if you get bored ? Do, any other thing which you thought of doing , but you were delaying it since a long time.
Well , coming to those sweets, If you are motivated enough , then it is very easy to keep those sweets aside, because it is all just your mindset which let's you do things! I have mentioned about why Fitness is a MINDSET !
Now what do you think about it ?
Is Instant gratification always bad ? No , right ! We need to use it in a right way which will help us to develop ourselves!!